In an attempt to protest monogamy, Brazilian model and swinger Arthur O Urso married nine women.
In the Name of (Too Much?) Love
Arthur O Urso initially married his first wife, fellow swinger Luana Kazaki, but soon decided to make a bold statement. He tied the knot with eight additional women in a symbolic ceremony held in São Paulo, all in protest against monogamous norms. For O Urso, the idea of marrying multiple women was about freedom and rebellion, not just physical pleasure.
It all started with Arthur O Urso’s marriage to Luana Kazaki, the first wife. They defined themselves as swingers, so she accepted having co-wives. But speaking of acceptance, she had her say for every new wife who entered their lives.
Olinda Maria (one of the wives) said she was anxious and “just had this mixture of emotions” when she had to get Luana’s approval.
“But when we met, we instantly realized there was this strong connection between us,” she said. “It seems that I know her from other lives.
However, maintaining nine romantic relationships has brought its fair share of complications. “It’s about more than love,” O Usro explained. “I needed to find a way to balance my sexuality and keep everyone satisfied.”
The solution? A sex schedule where each wife takes turns for intimate time with their husband.
But what sounded like an organized way to maintain harmony soon became challenging. While the unconventional setup was intended to celebrate free love, following a strict schedule didn’t please everyone.
When Sex Becomes a Chore
O Urso admitted that following the sex timetable wasn’t always smooth sailing:
“At first, it felt like a fun way to connect with each wife,” he shared. “But over time, it started to feel like I *had* to have sex, just because it was on the schedule, not because I wanted to.”
This led to emotional tension in the household, as intimacy became more about routine than desire. The pressure of keeping up with everyone’s expectations made O Urso’s sex life feel more like a game of “whoopie whack-a-mole” than a romantic connection.
The cracks in the system started showing when Agatha, one of his nine wives, decided to leave the relationship. Feeling neglected emotionally, Agatha filed for divorce, leaving O Urso to manage his remaining eight marriages.
Finding A New Balance
Agatha’s departure left O Urso reflecting on his experiment with polygamy. “I love them all, but nine wives might have been too much,” he confessed. “The sex schedule created more problems than solutions.”
Despite the challenges, O Urso remains committed to his idea of defying monogamy. Now, with eight wives, relying so heavily on a schedule is not working anymore. To find balance, he says intimacy has to be spontaneous, or it just loses its meaning.
O Urso’s story has certainly raised debates about non-traditional relationships, and how people manage love and intimacy. When someone breaks societal norms, people will definitely talk about it.
Still, he believes his experience proves at least one thing:
“Love and sex aren’t things you can plan perfectly. No matter how good the idea sounds, reality always has other plans.”