The OnlyFans model is spilling the truth about why your bedroom game might fail—and how a few simple changes can make all the difference.
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Are You Making These Mistakes in Bed? Ana Nello Thinks So
Ana Nello, a 20-year-old OnlyFans model, has built a large community (1M+ followers) by sharing her insights on relationships and intimacy. With Valentine’s Day around the corner, she’s calling out the common mistakes that make sex disappointing—especially for women.
According to Ana, many men focus too much on the end goal and forget the importance of what happens before and during intimacy. She believes that bad sex often starts before couples even reach the bedroom. But the good news? Most of these issues are fixable.
The Art of Seduction Begins Before the Bedroom
One of Ana’s biggest tips is that being a gentleman matters more than men think. A little effort can go a long way when setting the mood.
- Plan a Proper Date: Taking the time to arrange something special, whether it’s a dinner, an activity, or even a simple movie night, shows effort. Rushing straight to the bedroom without connection is a turn-off.
- Teasing Touches Work Wonders: Subtle, affectionate gestures—like brushing a cheek, placing a hand on her lower back or making genuine eye contact—build anticipation. Physical attraction isn’t just about the act but about creating a spark.
- Dress for the Occasion: Whether it’s a casual night in or a fancy dinner out, putting effort into appearance makes a difference. A clean, well-fitted outfit signals respect and boosts attraction.
The Biggest Mistakes Men Make in Bed
Some major bedroom blunders can ruin the experience even when the chemistry is right. Ana highlights three key mistakes men often make:
1. Ignoring the Clitoris
One of the most common complaints from women is that their partners neglect the clitoris. Ana emphasizes that clitoral stimulation is crucial for female pleasure and that open communication is key to knowing what feels good.
2. Prioritizing Their Pleasure
According to Ana, many men expect oral sex but don’t put in the same effort for their partner. “If she doesn’t want to receive, it might be because your technique needs improvement,” she warns. Consistency, patience, and attention to body language are essential.
3. Skipping Foreplay
Jumping straight into intercourse without enough foreplay is a common mistake. Ana suggests extending foreplay, whether through oral sex, sensual massages, or simply taking time to build arousal. Valentine’s Day is the perfect occasion to slow down and make the night special.
How About Using Toys?
While Ana believes that sex toys can enhance pleasure, she also advises caution—especially in new relationships. “It’s best to understand each other’s bodies before introducing toys,” she explains. Open conversations about comfort levels and desires are key to making any addition to the bedroom a success.
Make This Valentine’s Day One to Remember
Ana’s advice is clear—great sex isn’t just about technique but about effort, communication, and understanding. This Valentine’s Day, creating intimacy outside the bedroom might be the secret to making things unforgettable inside it.
So, if you’ve been wondering why past Valentine’s Days have been less than exciting, maybe it’s time to try something new. Focus on the experience, not just the result, and you just might have the best night yet.